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spacedaily.com
13/08/2026
There's a difference between being liked and being known — one is about smoothing yourself into a shape people can hold, the other is about staying whole enough that some people can't
Being liked rewards fluency and self-editing. Being known requires staying legible even when the version of you that shows up is inconvenient. The trade explains a specific kind of mid-life loneliness that surprises the people who feel it.